True colors were shining!
Ok , so on Monday 9.28.11
I went to work and it was a a pretty normal day. Sam and Shariden had soccer that day and I had Ebby and Austin. We were in the Alero LOL Sardines! Anyways when we got there I dropped the girls off and the kids and circled around and seen there was a lemonade stand on the corner of the JL Sornesen Rec. So we stopped and got two glasses of Lemonade for a buck. Austin was asleep and that's all I had :) Anyways it made there day, one little girls said to her friend as she turned around to put the money in her box " See I told you we would make some money out here" Optimism i love it. So after the game I took Sharidan home and we went home to get Sam changed and Aly had called and said meet me at my mothers for dinner, So that is where we went. We got there around 7pm and Art and his family and Adaly, Maria and Louie was their. Well Adaly and I haven't gotten along for about the past 2 to 3 months. So we talked and eat dinner and after that Maria was in the kitchen cleaning up and we were out side picking up and Ollie my sister in law asked Aly " Aly you really stop drinking? You shouldn't try to promise something that you cant keep! She said. I looked at Aly and mocked her! repeating the same thing she said. And went into the kitchen to keep my mouth shut. I wanted to punch her in the face so bad. But for the sake that my family was there and the relationship between Aly and his mom I shut up! So Adaly and Arturo grabbed a beer and went out side. Aly was sitting on the chair by the sliding glass door drinking a pepsi and I was standing behind him leaning against the chair toward him. They were talking about motorcycles because that was the conversation earlier. When Adaly decided he wanted to taunt Aly a little. So he discreetly asked him in Spanish if he wanted a beverage and gently wiggled his beer bottle and Aly shook his head no and Arturo just smiled and snickered. And out of no where I turned and looked at Adaly and said " Why do you have to do that"? he said with a stupid look on his face like he didn't know what I was talking about. Do what? he said. Taunt him about drinking beer. Why would you do that, you know that he is trying to do something good and all you can do is disrespect that and try to break him down. I said and then Alday said this is how I talk to my brother and you should stay out of our conversations. I told him no! he is my husband and I will stick up for him and I don't care how you are! Your just trying to break him down because that's what you like to do and your upset that your not capable of do it your self. And that's when Adaly blow-up. I said that's is why I don't talk to you Adaly because your disrespectful to me and my family when you make the remarks about our religion it's not just me that your digging at it is your nieces and nephew. I am sick of your comments. He said do you remember the time on the phone that you told Aly that you didn't want me at your house any more ! Well I will never ever go there again " Good I said thank you so much cause now I don't have to worry about it Thank you for granting me that favor. Now we are on the same level of understanding. Adaly said you don't ever F****** come to this house again. I looked at him " This isn't you house" If Maria doesn't want me here then she can tell me that and I will never come back again" But it is not your house! Then he proceeded to call me a piece of white trash F***** B***** Mormon. and to get the F**** out of the house. Piece of sh** Mormon.
It ws a crazy night, It was great that I stood up for my babe and for the morals that we have set in out life. But in the same breath I felt so bad because I just caused a huge rift in the relationship between Adaly and Aly. When we got home Aly told me that he ws so sorry for the things that Adaly said to me. I told him that I didn't care about the things that his brother called me. That's is not why I am upset. Adaly said and treated you like crap. and he didn't it in fromt of our kids. He should his true violent colors to a 6 and a 3 yr old that thinks the world of him and know he will never see them again. I dont ever want to go to your mothers house again. but again in the same breath that is letting him get his way. But I dont want to cause problems for Aly and his mother and reuin and family gathering either so the best way it to not go there ever and to make sure he NEVER comes to my house. The next day I went to work and I was so sad like really down. Jarica is a great friend I have at work. l love talking to her she is a return missionary and she always can give me a great prespective on the bad things that happen in life. I love talking to her. The spirit she carries with her, glow in her smile that she has when she talks about the gospil is amazing. I truly love listening to her talk about it. I remeber when I ws sittng in accounting at work one day and she was talking about her mission and as she would talk she had the spirit so strong with her and I started to cry because she was remembering her companion and the stories about having to eat the food that the families would prepare for the missionaries but Jarica new that the food that she and her companion was eating was the weekly food for that family and the children would go hungry. It was her very sad and I wasn't a member at the time and I could feel it so strong as she talked and cried. It made me cry. She has infulence me so much. Jarica if you ever get a chance to read this, you are a blessing in my life. You have truly changed and infulence me. You were my missionary guiding me and feeding me spiritally when I felt down everyday I came to work.
I went to work and it was a a pretty normal day. Sam and Shariden had soccer that day and I had Ebby and Austin. We were in the Alero LOL Sardines! Anyways when we got there I dropped the girls off and the kids and circled around and seen there was a lemonade stand on the corner of the JL Sornesen Rec. So we stopped and got two glasses of Lemonade for a buck. Austin was asleep and that's all I had :) Anyways it made there day, one little girls said to her friend as she turned around to put the money in her box " See I told you we would make some money out here" Optimism i love it. So after the game I took Sharidan home and we went home to get Sam changed and Aly had called and said meet me at my mothers for dinner, So that is where we went. We got there around 7pm and Art and his family and Adaly, Maria and Louie was their. Well Adaly and I haven't gotten along for about the past 2 to 3 months. So we talked and eat dinner and after that Maria was in the kitchen cleaning up and we were out side picking up and Ollie my sister in law asked Aly " Aly you really stop drinking? You shouldn't try to promise something that you cant keep! She said. I looked at Aly and mocked her! repeating the same thing she said. And went into the kitchen to keep my mouth shut. I wanted to punch her in the face so bad. But for the sake that my family was there and the relationship between Aly and his mom I shut up! So Adaly and Arturo grabbed a beer and went out side. Aly was sitting on the chair by the sliding glass door drinking a pepsi and I was standing behind him leaning against the chair toward him. They were talking about motorcycles because that was the conversation earlier. When Adaly decided he wanted to taunt Aly a little. So he discreetly asked him in Spanish if he wanted a beverage and gently wiggled his beer bottle and Aly shook his head no and Arturo just smiled and snickered. And out of no where I turned and looked at Adaly and said " Why do you have to do that"? he said with a stupid look on his face like he didn't know what I was talking about. Do what? he said. Taunt him about drinking beer. Why would you do that, you know that he is trying to do something good and all you can do is disrespect that and try to break him down. I said and then Alday said this is how I talk to my brother and you should stay out of our conversations. I told him no! he is my husband and I will stick up for him and I don't care how you are! Your just trying to break him down because that's what you like to do and your upset that your not capable of do it your self. And that's when Adaly blow-up. I said that's is why I don't talk to you Adaly because your disrespectful to me and my family when you make the remarks about our religion it's not just me that your digging at it is your nieces and nephew. I am sick of your comments. He said do you remember the time on the phone that you told Aly that you didn't want me at your house any more ! Well I will never ever go there again " Good I said thank you so much cause now I don't have to worry about it Thank you for granting me that favor. Now we are on the same level of understanding. Adaly said you don't ever F****** come to this house again. I looked at him " This isn't you house" If Maria doesn't want me here then she can tell me that and I will never come back again" But it is not your house! Then he proceeded to call me a piece of white trash F***** B***** Mormon. and to get the F**** out of the house. Piece of sh** Mormon.
It ws a crazy night, It was great that I stood up for my babe and for the morals that we have set in out life. But in the same breath I felt so bad because I just caused a huge rift in the relationship between Adaly and Aly. When we got home Aly told me that he ws so sorry for the things that Adaly said to me. I told him that I didn't care about the things that his brother called me. That's is not why I am upset. Adaly said and treated you like crap. and he didn't it in fromt of our kids. He should his true violent colors to a 6 and a 3 yr old that thinks the world of him and know he will never see them again. I dont ever want to go to your mothers house again. but again in the same breath that is letting him get his way. But I dont want to cause problems for Aly and his mother and reuin and family gathering either so the best way it to not go there ever and to make sure he NEVER comes to my house. The next day I went to work and I was so sad like really down. Jarica is a great friend I have at work. l love talking to her she is a return missionary and she always can give me a great prespective on the bad things that happen in life. I love talking to her. The spirit she carries with her, glow in her smile that she has when she talks about the gospil is amazing. I truly love listening to her talk about it. I remeber when I ws sittng in accounting at work one day and she was talking about her mission and as she would talk she had the spirit so strong with her and I started to cry because she was remembering her companion and the stories about having to eat the food that the families would prepare for the missionaries but Jarica new that the food that she and her companion was eating was the weekly food for that family and the children would go hungry. It was her very sad and I wasn't a member at the time and I could feel it so strong as she talked and cried. It made me cry. She has infulence me so much. Jarica if you ever get a chance to read this, you are a blessing in my life. You have truly changed and infulence me. You were my missionary guiding me and feeding me spiritally when I felt down everyday I came to work.
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